About us


Single Friendly Church aims to see all churches become places where single people feel welcomed, valued and included. Our work started more than five years ago and came about as the result of a piece of research commissioned by Christian Connection, focusing on the experiences of single people in church.  Receiving over 3,000 responses from single Christians, overwhelmingly the findings highlighted common themes of people feeling excluded, hurt, isolated and unwelcome, to the point that some had left church altogether. We realised that something needed to be done, and Single Friendly Church was formed. 


Our vision is for all churches to welcome, value and include single people of all ages and circumstances. And to see single people empowered to participate fully in the life and ministry of the church.


  1. To raise awareness of the increase in singleness in UK society and the need for churches to recognise and reflect this change. 
  2. To equip church leaders through the 5 Steps Audit, training and further resources, to make positive changes in their churches and to ensure all single people are welcomed, valued and included. 
  3. To build a network of Single Friendly Churches across the UK who have completed the Audit and committed to making positive changes in their churches. 


Co-founders: Jackie Elton and Dr David Pullinger 
Executive Director: Position Vacant
Campaign Manager: Beth Collingridge 
Network Co-ordinator: Ruth Edmonds
Social Media Manager: Lizzie Cattle
Directors of Single Friendly Church Community Interest Company:
Jackie Elton and Joff Williams 


  • Cardinal Vincent Nichols. Cardinal Archbishop of the Westminster, President of the Catholic Bishops' Conference of England and Wales, Chancellor of St Mary's University, Twickenham 
  • Archbishop Stephen Cottrell. Archbishop of York 
  • Christina Rees CBE. Chair of WATCH (Women and the Church), Chair of CABE (Christian Association of Business Executives) 
  • Rev’d Dr Kate Coleman. Director of Next Leadership, former Chair of the Evangelical Alliance, former president of the Baptist Union
  • John Bell. Author, songwriter, broadcaster, member of the Iona Community 
  • Bishop Pete Broadbent. Bishop of Willesden 
  • Chine McDonald. Director of Theos, Trustee of Greenbelt, broadcaster and writer 
  • Rev’d Canon Steve Chalke MBE. Baptist minister, Senior Leader of OASIS Waterloo, founder of OASIS, Founder and Chair of Stop the Traffik and Faithworks, broadcaster and social activist, Honorary Fellow of Sarum College, Salisbury.


Single Friendly Church is supported by Christian Connection.